Washington Governor Jay Inslee, the Thurston County Board of Commissioners, and the Olympia City Council have each proclaimed October as Community Conflict Resolution Month.  October 17th has been designated, internationally, as Conflict Resolution Day.

Please join us, and all 21 member of the Resolution Washington network, in celebration of the power of strengthening connections through communication and conflict resolution.

We want to express our gratitude to everyone who helps advance our vision of a South Sound community that has a uses healthy and respectful conflict resolution skills.  Your involvement and support - as a volunteer, a donor, a community partner - is making this vision a reality - one connection at a time.

As we strive to strengthen our service capacity in response to increasing and evolving community needs, your advocacy, time and financial support is critical in this effort.  

Each year, we help thousands of our neighbors move through conflict with confidence, integrity and respect.  This is an achievement worth celebrating - this month and throughout the year.

Is there an elephant in your office?Workplace conflict, lack of communication and incivility are common in many organizations, but, too often, ignored or avoided.  Unaddressed, they can have significant negative consequences for employers - emotional costs to you and your team, as well as financial costs:

• Decreased job performance and productivity
• Poor customer service
• Staff dissatisfaction, grievances and turnover
• Time-consuming hassle and stress

​Congratulations to Steve Tilley, a member of our DRC Family for more than 20 years, who was honored at our recent annual volunteer appreciation picnic as our Outstanding Volunteer for 2019.

"When we were considering who to honor as this year's outstanding volunteer, the themes that came up in regard to Steve were: his tireless dedication, steady presence, and quiet humility," emphasized DRC Executive Director Jody Suhrbier.  "Steve is one of the first people I mediated with as an apprentice. I was then and continue to be impressed by his calm demeanor and genuine interest in a fair process."
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"Steve has an authentic interest in ensuring that the processes he uses support long-term health and well-being for those touched by our services - whether that may be a child whose parents are separated or an incarcerated adult seeking to make reparations in our community."

To read a special profile of Steve recently published by Thurston Talk, click here.

The Dispute Resolution Center's new Community Impact Report, "Strengthening Connections", has  been published and is being distributed throughout Thurston and Mason Counties.

This year's report highlights the many collaborative partnerships that, collectively, are helping advance our vision and creating a more civil and peaceful community.

We hope you will take a few moments to read the online version of our report. 

If you would like to receive printed copies of the report, please contact Joe Sanders, Community Engagement Manager, at jsanders@mediatethurston.org.

​Thank You to all of the individuals, businesses, foundations and organizations who have made an investment in the mission and work of the DRC through their financial, in-kind and service partnership support.

To see a complete list of our 2018 supporters, click here.

The ballroom of the Hotel RL in Olympia was filled with community leaders and members of the DRC family who came together on Sunday, April 14th to celebrate and support the work of the Dispute Resolution Center.  This year's theme, "Strengthening Connections", highlighted the many personal connections and community partnerships that help advance the DRC's vision - a South Sound community that has and uses healthy and respectful conflict resolution skills.
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Thank You to all of our table hosts, volunteers, business partners, vendors and, especially, our generous donors, who made this event a success.

Our guests at the 2019 edition of The Toast:
- Enjoyed savory hors d'oeuvres from the Hotel RL chefs, sampled sweet treats from local chocolatiers and bakeries, and sampled libations from local wine-makers, cider-makers and distillers;
-Joined us in honoring Rev. Carol McKinley, recipient of this year's Evan Ferber Peacemaker Leadership Award;
- Heard from DRC Executive Director Jody Suhrbier and our keynote speaker, Olympia High School teacher Jason "Blue" Peetz, addressing the theme of "strengthening connections";
- Gave generously to support the DRC's efforts to build a more civil and peaceful community;
- and enjoyed re-connecting with long-time DRC supporters, as well as introducing first-time guests to the work of the DRC.

Click on the gallery thumbnails below to view the full-size photos:

​Jesse Laird has joined the Dispute Resolution Center's staff as our new Volunteer Manager.  In this role, he will lead volunteer recruitment, retention and coordination activities, as well as manage the DRC's mediator practicum program.

A native of Portland, Jesse earned Masters degrees in Conflict Resolution from Portland State University and International and Multicultural Education from the University of San Francisco.  He brings to the DRC extensive experience in developing and implementing educational curricula, and has created and presented trainings covering a wide variety of topics, including conflict resolution, facilitation and advocacy.  
 
"Stepping into the role of Volunteer Manager, Jesse brings several years of experience in conflict resolution as an educator," notes DRC Executive Director Jody Suhrbier.  "He has been a curriculum designer and teaching faculty, which has honed his interest in strengthening adult learning with a tailored, person-to-person approach.  We look forward to Jesse's active engagement with our DRC family and the broader community."

Jesse can be reached at jlaird@mediatethurston.org .

"Riley" is a 15-year-old boy who is two months into his sophomore year of high school. He has an older brother who was at school with him last year but has since graduated. Riley is struggling in his classes and has left school at lunch more than once, not coming back for class. He's not into drugs or crime (yet); he just wandered around town by himself.
 
People in Riley's life could call him many things:
-  A "slacker" by his peers;
-  A "frequent flyer" by his counselor, who sees him when he's been skipping;
-  A "delinquent" by the juvenile court counselor who sentences kids to rehab for truancy; or,
-  A "future inmate" by the State of Washington.

We know Riley to simply be a student who is struggling. To stay out of the juvenile justice system, Riley needs to stay in school. To stay in school, Riley needs to understand what's going on inside of him and how that influences the decisions he makes and the actions he takes. To do that, he needs support.
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Help support students, like Riley, with your donation.

Fortunately, Riley's high school partners with the DRC's Youth Empowerment Services (YES!).  Once a week, Riley's day includes a period when two young people from our YES Team come in and take over his teacher's class. They have everyone sit in a circle, which is meant to show that everyone is equal. Riley wanted to leave the room when they started talking about feelings, but things got interesting when they played a game he liked. Someone would say a feeling and toss the ball to someone else who had to say a need that was connected to that feeling. He enjoyed it when it wasn't just about him.  Riley now feels more engaged at school, and his attendance and grades are reflecting that.


You can help students just like Riley learn how to process the aspects of their lives that get in the way of their learning. Your support will enable the DRC to partner with more schools and serve more students, helping them stay in school and get on track to create a future with possibility in it, not prison.

Say YES! to empower youth with your contribution to the DRC's Youth Empowerment Services through the 'Give Local' campaign.  

If you make a donation before November 20th, 2018 your gift will be "stretched" by an Incentive Fund from our partner, the Community Foundation of South Puget Sound.  If you have already made a donation, please accept our gratitude for your support for our efforts to mentor and nurture the next generation.

Volunteer mediator David Kegley shares why he finds his involvement with the Dispute Resolution Center of Thurston County so fulfilling.
YOU can help resolve conflict, promote civility and create peace in your community as a volunteer with the DRC.
To learn more about volunteer opportunities, click here: http://www.mediatethurston.org/uploads/5/7/3/0/57304137/get_involved_flier_-_2018-19.pdf

Are you looking for an opportunity to make a real difference in your community?  Come play a key role in creating a more peaceful and civil community as a member of our Board of Directors.
 
The Board of Directors of the Dispute Resolution Center of Thurston County (DRC) is seeking new members who feel called to help us implement our vision.

The DRC Board is seeking new members who will enhance the Board's and the organization's representation of and engagement with the many diverse communities we serve. 
 
We welcome and encourage applicants with one or more of the following:

• Strong community connections,

• Skills in identifying and leveraging resources,

• Fundraising experience,

• K-12 education system experience,

• Governance, leadership or management experience.

To view a complete description and application instructions for prospective Board members, click here.
 
For more information, e-mail board@mediatethurston.org